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Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Please pray for us...

Dear friends and family,

Thank you for praying for us. We received many encouragement notes from you to say that you are and have been praying. Thank you.

It seems my previous email might have been unclear...

Josephine is the one suffering from the gastric flu. She's much better today. Diarrhea and vomiting had stopped since last night but she's still pretty weak. Please pray that she'll regain her full strength and health.

Joylynn is recovering from her mouth injury. It has became an ulcer stretching half her upper lip. This affects her eating. Other than that, she's well, happy and fine. Pray that her wound will heal well and soon.

We appreciate your prayers for us.


Learning to Love and Learn,


Benson Goh

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Monday, November 24, 2008

Please pray for us...

Dear friends and family,

Please pray for us...

Last Friday night, Joylynn had a freak accident at home. She tripped over the step into the toilet, fell and hit her right cheek on the toilet bowl. Naturally, she was all in pain and tears and her mouth was full of blood. Upon calming her down, we saw that her tooth had cut into her mouth and there was a nasty injury in there. It was 10 pm and I spent the next two hours driving her to 3 places to finally see a doctor. Thankfully he said she's ok though we had to watch out for any signs of brain injury. So far so good. 

Then today, Jo called me at 2pm to say that she felt really ill and sick. I rushed home. It turned out that she has gastric flu, and until 8pm, had diarrhea for 4 times, and vomited 3 times. She's feverish, looks really pale and weak. She can't eat or drink and needs lots of rest. 

We appreciate your prayers for us.


Learning to Love and Learn,


Benson Goh

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Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Will we celebrate birthday in heaven?

Today, Joy asked me, "Papa, will we celebrate birthday in heaven?"

I thought it was such an innocent question but filled with loads of theological significance! What is our view of heaven? What is our view of life in heaven? More so, what kind of security do we have that assures us that we will not just be able to enter heaven, but have a world of a time there, and even to celebrate our birthday!

So I told Joy, "Yes! I think we will celebrate our birthday in heaven! And everyday, there will be lots of birthday parties to go to!"

Saturday, August 30, 2008

Joy's first story telling contest



Joy took part in her first ever story telling contest on 30 Aug. It was a faith affair and she really did well. Watch the video clip and you'll see what I mean. She practiced really hard for this for 1 week. And the result? A good consolation prize. She was the final 4 to get her trophy, the remaining 3 being the top 3 prizes. So she really scored very well for a first timer! All credit goes to her hard work and Jo's patient coaching.





Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Another "hit"...


Our boy got another "hit" on his forehead...

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Remembering Sammy...


6 years ago, on 7 Aug 2002, we became first time parents. Happy and joyous! For 5 hours. The next 4.5 days were the toughest days we've ever been through. Because our boy was slipping away from us. Hour by hour. Minute by minute. Jo went into the delivery room and gave birth to Samuel Goh Yi En. This was after 8 rounds of artificial injection of water into her womb spread over 4 months, because for unknown reasons the water in the womb kept "disappearing" and decreasing. Sammy came into this world fighting for his life. Under-developed lungs and kidneys. His chances for survival were slim. Each day we dreaded what the doctors would tell us. He lived for 5 days. A courageous 5 days. And was ushered into God's presence. We still remember him fondly. And this year is no exception.

I went to his niche at Choa Chu Kang Columnbarium 3 days ago and took time simply to remember him. His niche is the rare one among all the rest... because there is no picture of him. Yet his 5 days of fight for survival will be indelibly etched in our minds and our hearts. Sammy would be 6 years old today if he's still with us. Click on the title to get the newsletter about him.



A church friend recently sent us an email about the story of another little boy. And I feel it resembles Sammy's life in some way. It helps us to remember him... He was and still is our inspiration for the rest of this journey.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Laughter, the best medicine...

Let our kid's hilarious laughter brighten up your day...

Thursday, July 24, 2008

What do you make of this?

Look at our super hero benny...



He has been the most active 2 year old at home... he runs and jumps and climbs and hops and... bumps his head. In fact this head-bumping has happened so many times we lost count. 3 weeks ago he knocked on his forehead twice in a day and got two bumps, one of each side of the forehead. Just two days ago, when his old injury was healing, he fell from the chair and bumped on the right side again. Result... what you see in the pic. Please pray for us and our little superhero at home that all will be well. We really do not know if this really warrants a visit to the doc or even scans...

Also please pray for our little princess. Again 3 weeks ago... she came down with a virus. Fever and cough for 2 weeks. Just when she recovered and went back to kindy for a week, she came down with fever again the last 2 days. Went back to kindy today but as I typed now, potentially developing a runny nose...

Monday, July 14, 2008

She may be a girl but she's good...



This was taken in Sep 07. Shows how athletic our girl was, and still is... even beating a bigger boy to it...

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Our little helper shopping for groceries...





Joy was in an art class and he still had in mind to say, "Bye bye jie jie" near the end... complete with a smile!

Just getting started...

As you can see, I'm just getting started on this whole blogging
world. The first thing that came to mind was to put our latest
newsletter on it. Plus some past stuff I've put up on previous blogs.

And for this blog, the theme inspirations came to mind. So to begin
with, I think I'll try to talk about who inspired me in my life so far.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Another milestone, a new beginning...



“And the Academic Excellence award goes to…”

On 17th May 2008, Benson graduated from the East Asia School of Theology (EAST) with a degree in Master of Divinity in Teaching and Exposition. In addition, he also received the Academic Excellence award. “I owe this award to my family,” he shared at the graduation party. “My wife, Jo, had been supporting me faithfully and sacrificially for the past three years, enabling me to concentrate on my course work so that I can be ‘equipped to handle the Word of God accurately’ (2 Tim 2:15). My daughter, Joy, had also been praying every night that, ‘Papa will study well and do well.’ ”



Ben had simply aimed to get through each term’s subjects. His goal was not to be a top student but simply to do his best, as unto the Lord. This aim took him through late night readings and writings, detailed planning of each term’s assignments so that he could balance study and family well, and maximizing each opportune time for reflection.

But eventually, it is what we do with what we know that matters. Ben had many opportunities to employ his learning to bless various groups of people. With small teams of staff, big groups of students, young parents in his cell group, or couples in the church parenting class, he was able to share and teach from the Word of God with greater confidence and certainty. It has truly been a tough but rewarding journey of learning in EAST.

As Ben marked a milestone in completing his studies, we will also embark on a new beginning. We had served in the Campus ministry for nine to eleven years before studying in EAST. Through the last three years of study, Ben found that he has a niche in doing research work and desires to teach the Bible as a long-term ministry. After much prayer and discussions, we decided to join EAST as ministry staff, with a view to teach there in future. EAST is a division of the Singapore Campus Crusade for Christ ministry, thus we will continue to be full time support-raising staff workers, laboring to “develop Christ-like leaders for the Great Commission.” Ben is now the Operations Director, managing all the administrations and operations of the school. In due time, he will also oversee a new program that brings theological studies to the laymen in churches and working adults in the marketplace. Jo will serve alongside Ben (her heart is in developing our new colleagues in the operations department) and she will be taking some Bible classes as well.

With this new venture, together with some internal revisions of our salary and ministry expenses, we are in need of raising S$400 more monthly financial support. We sincerely hope you’ll prayerfully consider joining our support team to equip more pastors, missionaries and church workers through our courses and to bring theological education to the masses.

New friendships, new challenges


Last September, God gave us a divine appointment, allowing us to meet a couple, Andy and Agnes (not their real names). After getting to know Agnes and helping her with her two year old daughter, Jo built a good friendship with her and discipled her although she was still a pre-believer. Jo shared the gospel with her on a few occasions and on 23rd December Agnes received Christ as her Savior. Since then, she has been growing in her faith and trusting the Lord’s timing for Andy to be a believer too. Then in January, Agnes’ brother also received Christ. Ben led Agnes and her brother in one interesting Bible study in which he had to use all the Teochew dialect he knew (they are Indonesian Teochew Chinese), mixed with some Mandarin, referring to his English Bible, while they read from their Indonesian Bible! Last month, Andy met with a minor accident and had to rest at home for two entire weeks. Over the course of time, through Agnes’ faith in Christ and unceasing prayers, Andy began to show interests in knowing Jesus more! Please pray that Andy will receive Christ soon!

Jo also have new challenges last December. She was asked to address 300 women conferees at the Metamorphosis Conference on the topic of jealousy. It was difficult preparing to speak and caring for our two kids at the same time. But as she prayed and trusted God to speak through her, she experienced the empowering of the Lord. She saw many women responding to God’s love that afternoon. It was a great privilege for her to be God’s mouthpiece to the students.

On the homefront





Joy is already in kindergarten and Benedict is 22 months old. They play well together and constantly look out for each other. Joy loves drawing and painting art, is able to read whole books on her own, and has even started memorizing addition tables! She is especially inquisitive now. Recently, she asked us do dogs cry and what is heaven like! After we said heaven is the greatest, most beautiful and most fun place, she said she wants to go there early (thinking she can have more fun)! By her influence, Benny loves to read too; he will grab a book, climb onto Ben’s lap and insist on Ben to read to him. Benny talks a lot; his favorite line has been “I want to go out!” Being ever ready to say “Hello” and “Hi there!” he draws smiles from people everywhere he goes. Please continue to pray for their growth and for us to have wisdom in parenting them.